News Flash: Just because we are women doesn’t mean we share the same brain or hold one common political belief system – but some ill-informed people might think we do.
When Marine Le Pen of France lost the French presidential election and Hillary Clinton failed to become the President of the United States you could hear and read opinions that centered around women who didn’t support these candidates. What followed were statements like, Women Against Women, Women Hate Other Women, Women Beware Women.
I get so v-e-r-y tired of this BS.
Informed people, regardless of their gender, vote based primarily on their personal values. They protest or support causes that directly impact their life, work, community or country. It is entirely possible to take a vagina or penis out of the equation and simply set out to elect a leader.
Now, follow me on this one because it might be hard for some of you who believe that a woman is against women if she doesn’t vote for one….GROW UP!!!
In an attempt to move us further away from divisive and simplistic comments about women I would like to offer this:
- There is no one size fits all Feminist and there never is a one size fits all female candidate
- Women are smart too and capable of making an informed choice
- They think, live, eat, dress, pray, dream, compete, believe, educate, plan and vote differently
- The myth that women hate other women continues but it remains without merit. If anything, one should look closer at men’s hatred for other men – especially related to stats on male on male violence. A point of fact: There are examples that both men and women don’t treat each other well
- The longer we keep separating women out politically and setting up narratives that pit women against women, the further we are from any form of unity or civility
So, is it a little clearer?
If I vote for a man, that doesn’t mean I gave up my membership to womanhood. If I protest against a leader – who happens to be a woman – that doesn’t mean I hate her or that I’m against women, I simply don’t agree with the parties’ policies.